Make this the younger brother often fight

It is common knowledge that between brother and sister often quarrel. But in fact there are certain things that can trigger a fight. quarrel which occurred between brothers and sisters can sometimes leave parents stressed and nervous. To avoid this condition parents should know what are the things that can trigger a fight, as quoted by Parenting, Wednesday (11/16/2011), namely:

1. Competition 

The kids actually pay attention to how parents treat their children with each other. If they think there are different treatments without fundamental issue could trigger a separate competition between brothers and sisters. Different treatments such as spending more time or more frequently perform certain activities with one child. 

2. Fight for attention 

Sometimes a fight that happened to be in close proximity to the parent to get his attention. One of the kids playing as a sacrifice to get greater attention. 

3. Each other fighting over a toy 

Despite buy each toy, sometimes brothers fight each other can still fighting over a toy. This is because the kids can not really appreciate the belongings of his siblings. 

4. One acting like a boss 

Older children sometimes were given the task to supervise his brother, but without realizing that their behavior is sometimes like the boss's brother considers there is injustice to trigger a fight. 

5. Joking with violence 

Is often the way children are older joking with his brother just as he was playing with his peers, so that not infrequently the younger brother felt like there was too rough physical contact. 

6. Jokes that poke fun at each other 

Quarrel is not only triggered by physical violence, but could also be due to verbal attacks or the beginning of the dancer-teasing.If not discontinued the condition can make brothers and sisters quarrel with such a physical beating each other.

Some things can be done by parents to address children's quarrels among siblings, namely: 

Do not resolve the problem directly (to the point), the children, especially young people need time to find solutions for themselves. If there is one child who sulk (spoiled) after a fight, then let it go and listen to every complaint kesahnya. Try to spend some time with each child individually, this will be very useful for parents to be able to see more of the characteristics of each child. Make some rules have agreed together to avoid a fight. Giving rewards or praise if their children can go through a day without a fight. 

Source: detikhealth.com